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Body Language Expert: The 3 “Dark Psychology” Tricks To Read Anyone’s Mind! – Chase Hughes

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Are you being manipulated daily? Behaviour Expert Chase Hughes on the secret formula and hacks behind influence!

Chase Hughes is a former US Navy Chief who spent 20 years specialising in applied behavior and interrogation, and a specialist in understanding psychological operations. He is the author of the bestselling book, ‘The Behavior Operations Manual: Neuro-cognitive Intelligence Training Manual’.

He explains:
◼️The 4-step psyop model that secretly controls your behaviour
◼️How to read anyone instantly using behavioural profiling
◼️The “PCP” method that lets you influence any decision
◼️How social media and AI are rewiring your identity
◼️The subtle manipulation tactics used by governments and media

00:00 Intro
05:30 Why The PCP Model Might Be Your Biggest Edge In An AI World
08:28 Why Breaking Social Scripts Changes How People See You
10:51 The Hidden Framework That Makes You Instantly More Persuasive
21:36 How To Get People To Open Up (Without Forcing It)
25:17 Why Precommitment Quietly Controls Your Future Decisions
31:20 How To Reduce Anxiety By Resolving Cognitive Dissonance
36:02 What Your Leadership Style Reveals (And What It’s Costing You)
38:46 What Real Authenticity Actually Looks Like (And Why Most Get It Wrong)
40:37 The Childhood Triangle That Secretly Shapes Your Behavior
49:43 How Your Childhood Still Controls You – And How To Break Free
56:03 How To Rewire Your Brain Without Realizing It
1:01:57 Why This Ad Break Might Be More Strategic Than You Think
1:04:00 The Most Dangerous Persuasion Skill (And Who’s Using It On You)
1:06:20 Why The “Rich = Bad” Narrative Is More Complicated Than It Seems
1:09:00 How Psychology Wins Court Cases Behind The Scenes
1:16:59 How To Actually Apply These Skills In Everyday Life
1:26:25 How Changing Your Perspective Can Transform Your Mental Health
1:28:05 What A DMT Experience Really Feels Like (And Why It Sticks)
1:30:31 Are We Living In A Simulation? What The Evidence Suggests
1:35:07 How DMT Changes The Way You Think About Religion
1:36:52 Inside The DMT Waiting Room: What Happens Before The Trip
1:40:42 What If Consciousness Isn’t In Your Body At All?
1:42:41 Why Feeling Seen And Heard Is More Powerful Than You Think
1:46:38 How Your Insecurities Shape Your Reality (Without You Noticing)
1:48:39 Why Life Is Supposed To Be Fun (And Where We Go Wrong)
1:49:39 How Expanding Your Skill Set Might Be The Key To Happiness

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Body Language Expert Explains Why People Dislike You

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Can you make someone like you in seconds? Vanessa Van Edwards returns with the science-backed secrets of dating and likeability – tested in real-life dating scenarios for the very first time.

In this conversation, Vanessa and Steven discuss topics such as, the small mistake that makes people dislike you, the real reason you’re still single, the one habit that will keep you lonely forever, and the facial expression that increases your likeability by 80%.

00:00 Intro
03:02 How Important Is It to Master the Skill of Communication?
03:33 Are We Set in Our Ways? Is Charisma Genetic?
04:18 Different Types of Awkwardness in People
04:53 How to Make Friends – The 3 Core Friendship Values
06:37 How Do You Figure Out Your Core Friendship Values?
07:34 How Many People Has Vanessa Taught These Skills? And What Do They Want?
08:18 First Impressions
10:24 Profile Pictures
12:11 Profile Picture Examples
14:10 Add Cues for a Better First Impression
15:28 How Sunglasses Block Connection
16:21 More Good Cues for First Impressions
16:54 How Do I Make a Really Bad First Impression?
18:30 What We Need to Signal to Express Warmth
21:27 Breaking the Script
23:19 Master Communicators and the "Chemical Cocktail"
25:33 Thread Theory
26:12 How to Stop Feeling Like You're Making the Conversation About Yourself
26:33 British vs. American Expression Styles
26:52 Second Impressions
28:11 Online First Impressions
29:11 Be the Red Apple
30:17 How to Make an Impression on Zoom
32:08 The Story Toolbox
35:07 How Important Is Background on Zoom?
36:29 Where to Look on Zoom Calls
37:16 Date Experiments
39:45 Adding Depth to Conversations
40:45 Dream Killing in Conversation
41:47 Cheersing
43:09 Drivers and Passengers in Conversation
44:23 Micro Wins
45:05 Body Language That Indicates Attraction
49:35 Why Busyness Is Not a Mark of Success
51:16 The Jam Study – Too Many Choices
52:12 Prioritizing Self-Care Over Connection
53:08 Dating Checklists
54:23 Do We Get More Numb the More We Date?
55:32 Two Challenges If You're in a Funk or Feeling Lonely
58:26 Steve Being a Control Freak
01:00:14 Networking Events
01:00:55 Ads
01:01:59 How Do Great Leaders Communicate?
01:02:50 Date 2 – Giving People Hooks in Conversation
01:07:02 How to Present Your Job to Someone
01:09:20 Using the Word "Because" as a Leader
01:11:01 How Do We Know If Someone Likes Us?
01:14:20 What If You're Not a Funny Person?
01:16:09 Can You Learn to Be Funny?
01:16:57 Touch
01:18:10 Hacks for Being Funny
01:19:36 Channeling Other People
01:20:36 Microexpressions
01:21:37 Reading Fear in People's Faces
01:23:24 Seeing Disgust in People's Faces
01:25:09 How to Tell If Someone Is Angry Without Them Saying It
01:27:05 How to Tell When Someone Is Truly Happy
01:28:49 How to Tell If Someone Is Sad Even If They Don’t Say It
01:31:03 How to Tell If Someone Is Surprised
01:32:33 How to Tell If Someone Has Contempt Toward You
01:35:23 Can and Should We Change Our Personalities?
01:37:20 Steve's Personality Traits
01:38:49 Making Your New Partner Take a Personality Test
01:41:20 Conscientious People
01:43:27 How It All Links With Neurodivergence
01:44:11 Extroversion
01:47:51 Agreeableness
01:49:57 Neuroticism
01:51:53 Ads
01:52:47 How to Spot a Narcissist
01:54:40 Longevity and Personality Traits
01:57:05 Do Extroverts Have Better Immunity?
01:58:04 Personality Traits of Lifelong Singles
01:59:57 Should We Know Other People's Personality Types When We Meet Them?
02:01:38 Feeling Like the Vibe Is Off
02:03:31 What Are You Doing to Serve Others

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Body Language Expert: Stop Using This, It’s Making People Dislike You, So Are These Subtle Mistakes!

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Vanessa Van Edwards is the founder of ‘Science of People’, which gives people science-backed skills to improve communication and leadership. She is also the bestselling author of ‘Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People’ and ‘Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication'.

00:00 Intro
02:13 The Crucial Role of Cues for Success
03:45 I'm a Recovered Awkward Person
05:36 What's an Ambivert
07:28 One Word Can Change the Way People Think
09:39 The Most Fundamental Skill to Invest In
12:41 The Resting B*tch Face Effect
16:01 Do Not Fake Smile!
18:29 The 97 Cues to Be Warm u0026 Competent
21:44 The Formula to a Perfect Conversation
24:37 Science Reveals Why Some People Are Extremely Popular
28:34 Message People Telling Them This…
33:22 The Luck Experiment
35:05 Being Around Successful People Is Contagious
41:55 The Importance of Hand Gestures
43:38 Hand Tricks to Be Liked
54:15 The Scientific Formula to Be More Charismatic
56:47 The Danger Zone of Being Too Warm or Competent
58:45 The Power Cues
1:07:55 How to Spot a Liar
1:15:23 If You've Been Told You're Intimidating, Do This
1:18:37 Don't Let Anyone Use This With You
1:21:45 The 6 Questions to Connect With Someone
1:34:20 Leaning Too Much Towards Someone…
1:39:03 How to Greet Someone
1:49:42 How to Master Messaging
1:54:40 Personal Branding
1:59:01 Improve Your Dating Life With These Tips
2:04:27 Body Language and Brain Connection
2:06:33 Are You Awkward? Watch This
2:10:14 How to Get Someone to Approach You
2:15:08 How to Make Friends as an Adult
2:18:57 AirPods Are Killing Friendships
2:22:16 Ads
2:24:08 How to Spot a Liar
2:30:05 Toxic Relationships
2:32:34 How to Start a Conversation With a Stranger
2:37:00 How to Get Started With All This Knowledge

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